(I figured I'd put this here too?) 

Loveiswhatyoumakeit45: Met 2 Liars. Looked 35-40 yrs. Older Than Pics!

Smokes Occasionally with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Grand Rapids, MI
45 year old Male, 6' 2" (189cm), Other
Other, Capricorn
Loveiswhatyoumakeit45 wants to find someone to marry.
Some College
Free Thinker








Hey, alrighty then!


I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test
Not Completed
Not Completed

Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer Not To Say
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Grey
Do you have a car? Prefer Not To Say Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Dog


• God
• Discussing the Bible
• Pop
• Amy grant
• Olivia newton-john
• Kenny Rogers
• Bryan Adams
• Elvis
• Michael jackson
• Prince
• Garth Brooks
• Wille nelson
• Gordon lightfoot
• Credence Clearwater Rivival
• Carpenters
• EdTV soundtrack
• Bee Gees
• Luther Vandross
• Johnny Cash
• Elton John
• George michael
• Bette Midler
• Billy Idol
• Adam Lambert
• Michael McDonald
• Doobie Brothers
• Breathe
• Reo speedwagon
• Cher
• Ray Charles
• Easy Listening
• Top 40
• Decent rap/a little heavy metal
• Movies The Ten Commandments
• Edtv
• A Time To Kill
• Titanic
• Forrest Gump
• Play Misty For Me
• Terminator 2
• Standup comedy
• Richard Pryor
• Others
• Art Museums
• Photography
• Traveling
• Meeting decent people
• Singing
• Bargain shopping
• Weight lifting

About Me
Please, have up to date pictures. Or you are wasting your time messaging me. I’m 45 yrs.young, 6’2″ tall, h/w proportionate, d/d free.

First off. it may appear that I’m online all the time. I’m actually not. I just stay logged in to not have to keep signing in. Also I may not get on this site everyday so, if you message me and I haven’t responded to you yet, that may be why. That being related I’m going to get right into this.

I don’t cheat, lie, or steal. I’m loyal to my mate (whoever I’m REALLY with), am helpful, level-headed, have a good sense of humor, am playful sometimes, and I believe in the existence of an Almighty Being (I have my reasons).

To me it’s unethical to date other people while you’re seeing someone else. That’s a juggling act that doesn’t sit well with me. I’d rather not indulge.

I’m not on here looking for sex or one night stands. Sex can be as cool as a fan with the right partner but I’m looking for more than that. I’m seeking someone who wants, needs, and would like/love to have a real relationship, not a bunch of time-wasting crap.

If you want a REAL man, someone who will honor, respect, care for, and treat you right, the way a person should be treated, I’m one of those men.
Bless you REAL people out there. To you others (racists, game players, liars, cheaters, gold-diggers, the unforgiving who hold grudges, and the like), if there IS a literal burning, tormenting hell, why wonder who’s going to it?

Age, handicap, past ok, too. Love has no limitations, as long as it’s treated RIGHT.

So, as far as dating or seriously being together with someone, ethnicity really doesn’t matter. Looks, like one’s color, are only skin-deep. Only a foolish person will buy a book because the cover is pretty. That’s stupid.

I do not care about how much money you have or your lack of it for that matter. I’m a realist. Again, character matters most to me. Tricks and games are kid stuff. Why not keep it 100%? Love IS what you make it. All else is simply a waste of time.

Your child/ren, if you are a mother, is/are most welcome. I like the gaiety, wonder and surprise of children but mainly their innocence. It’s especially for children that I’m working on different projects to help make this world a better place.

I’m not selfish like some guys who leave a woman “hanging” in the bedroom, either. I know how to please and satisfy whomever I get with, providing, of course, that it’s…LIKE THAT!!! I know there’s more than one way to love a woman.

I have many common interests, am versatile, an all around kind of guy, love to laugh and make others laugh, like having fun, good times. Laughter truly is very good medicine for the soul.

I don’t like arguing. I don’t and won’t fight. That’s barbaric! I’m easygoing.

The “meet me” thing. Is that legit? If you really want to meet someone, why not just message them? (Obviously people who send that, if it’s not the system slyly doing it, are people who do not even take the time to read the person/s of interest’s profile/s. I guess they are just mindless, booty call-seeking horny toads. STD’S MEAN ANYTHING TO YOU PEOPLE AT ALL?!)

Although I don’t bite and am kindhearted and friendly, I’m NOT a fool. And I’m certainly NOT paying to “meet” someone when it’s basically free to do so. How dumb is that? My name is NOT Billy Bob Bananahead!!

I have a place, some income and I’m not a gossiper, player, or someone who will leave you for someone else, no matter what. I’m compassionate and sincere all the time.

I’m NOT perfect. If that’s what you want (DING! DING! DING!), wrong ad! But I can truthfully tell you that I’m a good man.

I don’t like racists, lying, trifling, vindictive, secret agenda-having, scandalous, self-centered people, regardless of their race or gender. (Hopefully this will ward off those who are like that.)

I write songs, poetry, too, sometimes, have a little recording studio in my apartment. Not loud. I use headphones. Not stupid or inconsiderate of other people.

If you want to know more, leave a message and/or your phone number. I will answer asap.

First Date
If you can walk and chew bubble-gum at the same time, don’t have the personality of a wet mop, are not built like Arnold Swartzennegger, don’t have children who act like they watch movies on how to be midget terrorists, and are not on medication (lol) prescribed by a “street pharmacist,” we can meet, have a drink or two of something, and get to know each other beyond pof.

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